3 Core Pillars of Success
Foro Romano - Italy
🚀 The Three Core Pillars of a Successful Life & Business
Have you ever felt like you’re just going through the motions, unsure if you’re on the right path? 🤔 Whether in business or life, success isn’t just about working hard—it’s about working in alignment with who you truly are.
In a recent video, three powerful tips stood out:
✅ Discover Your primary Question
🎯 Align Your Values
💡 Know Your Purpose
These aren’t just words; they’re the foundation for making decisions that lead to real success. Let’s break each it down.
1️⃣ Discover Your Primary Question
Your primary question is the one thought that keeps showing up in your life. It’s the lens through which you see the world. 🌍
For example:
🤷♂️ If your primary question is, “Why does nothing ever work out for me?” your brain will focus on obstacles instead of solutions.
💪 If it’s, “How can I make this work?” you’ll constantly seek opportunities for growth.
🔍 Find your primary question by reflecting on the thoughts that dominate your decisions. Does your question empower you or limit you? If it’s the latter, reframe it into something positive that pushes you forward. 🚀
PRO TIP: Use ChatGPT to act as your coach with a prompt like this:
💡 Prompt [Use entire text below]:
I want you to act as a world leading mindset and success coach. Your goal is to help me discover my Primary Question—the subconscious question that drives most of my thoughts, decisions, and actions. This question shapes my reality, either empowering or limiting me.
To do this, guide me through a deep self-discovery process with reflective questions and exercises.
1️⃣ Start by helping me uncover patterns in my thoughts—what I constantly ask myself, especially in moments of stress, success, or decision-making.
2️⃣ Help me identify whether this question is empowering or limiting my growth.
3️⃣ If it’s limiting, guide me in reframing it into a more positive and action-oriented question.
4️⃣ Keep the conversation introspective but structured, like a real coaching session.
5️⃣ Encourage me to reflect deeply, but also offer insights from psychology and mindset coaching.
Let’s begin—what’s the first question I should ask myself? Ask me 1 question at a time and wait for my response.
2️⃣ Discover & Align Your Values
Success feels hollow when it’s not aligned with what truly matters to you. ❤️ If you chase money but value freedom, you might build a profitable business but feel trapped. If you love adventure but build a life of security, you may always feel something is missing. 🏝️
📝 Take a moment to list your top five life values. Use the question “What is important to me about… [Life] [Money] [Relationships] [Family] [Health] etc. Under each category you will discover your “Why’s” for each of these aspects of life. In the beginning work with the big picture “Life” values.
They might be:
🔓 Freedom
👨👩👧👦 Family
🌍 Adventure
💰 Security
🎨 Creativity
Once you have a list work out what order they go in (ask yourself which one is the most important and reorder until you have it. This will help you discover whether there are conflicts in values or why you health may not be great because you don’t have it high on your values list.
PRO TIP: Use ChatGPT to act as your coach with a prompt like this:
💡 Prompt [Use entire text below]:
I want you to act as a world leading mindset and success coach. Your goal is to help me discover and align my core LIFE values—the fundamental beliefs that drive my decisions, actions, and sense of fulfilment.
To do this, guide me through a structured self-reflection process with thought-provoking questions and exercises.
1️⃣ Start by helping me uncover what truly matters most in my life—what I prioritise, what excites me, and what I naturally gravitate toward.
2️⃣ Help me identify patterns in my past decisions to see what values I have been unconsciously living by.
3️⃣ Challenge me to narrow my list down to 5 core values that best represent me.
4️⃣ Once we identify them, help me assess whether my current lifestyle, business, and goals are aligned with these values.
5️⃣ If there’s misalignment, guide me in adjusting my priorities or approach to bring my life into greater harmony with my values.
6️⃣ Keep this conversation introspective yet structured, and feel free to offer insights from psychology, mindset coaching, and personal development.
Let’s begin—what’s the first question I should ask myself? Ask me 1 question at a time and wait for my response.
3️⃣ Know Your Purpose
This is the really big WHY behind everything you do. 🔥 When you have a clear purpose, obstacles become easier to overcome. Instead of giving up at the first sign of struggle, you push through because your mission matters.
🔎 Find your purpose by asking:
🌟 What are you naturally drawn to?
🌍 What impact do you want to have on the world?
💸 If money wasn’t a factor, how would you spend your days?
Your purpose doesn’t have to be world-changing. 🌎 It just has to matter to you. Whether it’s helping people, creating amazing content, or providing for your family, knowing your purpose gives you clarity and motivation. 💡
PRO TIP: Use ChatGPT to act as your coach with a prompt like this:
💡 Prompt [Use entire text below]:
I want you to act as a world leading mindset and success coach. Your goal is to help me discover and clarify my life’s purpose—the deeper reason behind what I do and what truly fulfils me.
To do this, guide me through a structured self-reflection process with thought-provoking questions and exercises.
1️⃣ Start by helping me explore what naturally excites and energises me—what activities or experiences make me feel most alive.
2️⃣ Guide me in reflecting on moments when I’ve felt the most fulfilled and meaningful in my life.
3️⃣ Help me identify common themes or patterns in what I enjoy, what I excel at, and how I naturally help others.
4️⃣ Encourage me to look beyond money and external success—what impact do I want to have on the world or the people around me?
5️⃣ Once we identify key elements of my purpose, help me craft a clear and simple purpose statement that resonates with me.
6️⃣ Finally, guide me in assessing whether my current actions and goals are aligned with this purpose, and suggest ways to integrate it more fully into my life.
Keep the conversation introspective yet structured, and feel free to offer insights from psychology, mindset coaching, and personal development.
Let’s begin—what’s the first question I should ask myself? Ask me one question at a time and wait for my response.
Putting It All Together 🧩
These three steps aren’t just about self-discovery—they’re about building a life and business that actually make you happy. 😊
✔ Ask yourself better questions 🤔
✔ Make sure your life and business align with your values 🎯
✔ Clarify your purpose and let it guide you 💡
When these three elements are in place, everything becomes clearer. You stop second-guessing yourself, and you move forward with confidence. 🚀
💬 What’s your primary question? Drop it in the comments—I’d love to hear what drives you!
🔥 Stay aligned, stay purposeful, and keep moving forward! 🔥
Cheers,
Andreas
